đ Day 22: Reflect, Receive, and Run Toward Your Calling: #75HardMaxwellized | A Reflection Lesson on Growth, Gratitude & Godâs Timing
- Melahni Ake
- Jun 25
- 3 min read
âExperience is not the best teacherâevaluated experience is.â
âJohn C. Maxwell, The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth, Chapter 4: The Law of Reflection
Todayâs lesson from The Law of Reflection hit me straight in the heartâand then God sent a double rainbow to seal it. Literally.
As I sat overlooking Mirror Lake and the Olympic Ice Arena in Lake Placid after a leadership training session I decided to stay in my hotel and have dinner because it was raining. I was a little sad because I felt like I was going to miss seeing the rest of this quaint little community that I am quickly learning to love.. Traveling for work has always inspired me to experience the NOW.
So itâs Tuesday night and at 7pm every Tuesday night I meet with a small
group on zoom for growth and accountability no matter where I am in the world zoom is easy to jump on. So we were discussing on our accountability call tonight about our momentum and seeing your goals the way God sees them and WHY donât we trust that Godâs plans are so much greater than ours. Thatâs when I looked up from my chair nestled up to the picture windows overlooking the Lake Placid community. Outside the windows where it had been pouring down rain just moments ago âââBOOMâa perfect double rainbow arched over the horizon.

In that moment, the message was crystal clear: Godâs vision for your life is often bigger, brighter, and more miraculous than you can imagineâbut to see it, you must first pause and reflect on what Heâs already done.
đĄ The Law of Reflection: Why It Matters
Reflection isnât just remembering. Itâs evaluated gratitude.
Itâs when you look back to gain insight, not just to revisit memories.
Maxwell teaches that growth doesnât happen just because time passesâit happens when we intentionally pause, consider, and learn.
THIS MOMENT HAPPENED EXACTLY AT THE TIME WE WERE INTENTIONALLY PAUSING TO REFLECT
So todayâDay 22 of this #75HardMaxwellized challengeâIâm issuing a Gratitude Reflection Challenge to you.
âď¸ Reflection & Gratitude Challenge:
Whatâs a moment this week that surprised youâin a good way?
(One of mine was the double rainbow!)
Where have you grown emotionally, spiritually, or relationally in the last 22 days?
Be specific. Your growth deserves to be named.
What gift from God have you overlooked because youâve been too busy moving?
Pause. Breathe. Receive.
What âMiracle on Iceâ moments are already showing up in your life story?
Donât miss them just because they donât look like fireworks. What is the moment that because you took action it happened?
đ Why This Matters
If we donât reflect, we miss the message.
If we donât pause, we miss the presence.
And if we donât give thanks, we miss the grace that was meant to fuel our next step.
The reflection is the revelation.
God shows us what weâre ready to see.
So the rainbow wasnât just a pretty view. It was a divine exclamation point on the lesson:
⨠âI see you. Iâve got more. Keep going.â
đ Your Turn: Step Into the Vision
Godâs gifts are already on the way.
But Heâs waiting for you to show Him that youâre ready.
Reflect.
Give thanks.
Receive.
Then GOâbecause itâs YOUR TIME.
What a wonderful moment! Also, thank you for the reminder to reflect and give thanks.